Management Craft

Do you really want it or are you wanting to want it? #management #happiness #authenticity

File this post in the category of personal success. Life success. Leading with authenticity.

First, I want to share a very important video. It is not short - just over a hour - but it could transform your life. The video is of Dr. Dean Ornish on the connection between how we live and our health. I watched it this weekend and found it riveting. And I am convinced that to be the best leaders we can possibly be, we need to be the best humans we can be. We need to be the fully expressed version of ourselves. Check out the video here.

Consider this example of authenticity: throwing yourself into whatever you dream without self-consciousness or regret.

There are two sticky parts to the above example. First, is the throwing of oneself into what we dream. I have been challenging myself a lot lately regarding my goals and dreams. I say I want to XYZ, but if I am honest, there are many signs that should tell me that I really don't want to do this. It is a goal I want to want. Something that I think would be interesting to want. But I have to push myself to get enthused about it.

Here is an example. I have been saying for many years that I wanted to get my PhD. I even enrolled in a great program and was underway. It was a slog for all the usual reasons including that I was working full time and trying to have a life. I thought this was normal and it is to a point. But even if I had all the time in the world it would be a slog. And now I can be at peace and tell you I really don't want a PhD. I wanted to want it. Quitting the program hurt because I had already made an investment. But is it ever right to continue spending time and money when it's no longer a goal? No, it is not (especially if you do not need the credential/outcome, which I don't).

I have been thinking about writing a quirky crime novel. I think it is a fun idea. But I am realizing that this might be another one of my wanting to wants, not a real want. What's the clue? I am not enthused to get into it. It is a slog even when I have the time.

I have decided that I will do only the following:

• Things I REALLY want to do
• Things I have to do to be a good citizen
• Things I choose to do to serve others

But I won't do

• Things I want to want to do, that upon reflection, I realize I don't want to do

I can't be authentic - throw myself into it - if I am trying to talk myself into the idea. There will be no room in my tiny brain to focus on making progress.

The second part of the example that is a bit tricky is "without self-consciousness or regret." Yikes, that is a hard but worthy endeavor. I have been working on this. Here is an ego-driven example. I have resisted doing a lot of biking because I was self-conscious about how my big butt must look from behind. So silly, really, especially since A) most people are not thinking of me when our paths cross, and thinking they are is pretty self-absorbed and B) who cares, it is big, which is why I need to bike more.

I have found that when I can adopt a less self-consious approach, I am better able to throw myself into things. It is a gift I can give myself that keeps on giving.

We are mental garbage making machines, aren't we? Success - which I define as fruitful happiness - comes when we can dial down our mental garbage long enough to let our talents manifest possibilities.

Enjoy the week. Throw yourself into something that really matters to you and don't worry if your butt looks big.

Here is your #leadership litmus test.

Is there one indicator of great leadership that shines above all others? I believe there is.

Brace yourself.

Actually, it is quite simple.

The litmus test for great leadership - in my humble opinion - is the degree that you lead according to your stated and understood intentions. The "your" in that sentence means what you have said to your team AND your organization's intentions.

Before you switch over to another blog because I have bored you by stating the obvious, stick with me through this example. It's trickier than we might think....

I know a senior leader who I will call Sam. Sam is a functional leader for a large organization and he has several hundred people working for him in his unit. Sam is fairly new and the early indications are that he has the potential to be great.

The organization, like many, like yours, has big plans. They want to grow and reinvent and revolutionize the market. Sam seems fully behind - excited, passionate - this mission and strategy and speaks often about what it means for his team. He wants his team to be the exemplars - the role models  - for the desired future. To lead, not lag.

Great vision. Here's the potential rub. There are a few folks who report to Sam - at the senior leader level - who are not on the same bus. In fact, they are notorious for being on no one's bus but their own. They come to meetings and politely seem in agreement, then go back to their groups and do whatever they want. They are not cooperative and not a pleasure with which to work.

The buzz in the department falls into a few themes:

1. Most people see Sam as having the right ideas and strategies.

2. However most also have little faith that he will deal with these "on their own bus" folks. They hope and wonder if he will be THE ONE to demand more from them (or let them go when they refuse their seat on the corp bus).

So let's get back to the litmus test. Sam has said that the team - his whole team - should lead the organization into the future. There are lots of smaller efforts happening in the department. That's all great, but as long as Sam does not insist that ALL his leaders get on the bus, he will never be anything more than a good leader who enjoyed average progress and results. It won't happen, it can't happen.

And consider the possibility - if he DID hold his own line, wow, what a dramatic change would occur and he would send a message that could unleash a flood of great work. People are waiting for Sam to do something great.

Leading according to our intentions means for real - every decision is consistent with what we say. When we say, "this shall be," it should mean something.

I get a little impatient with folks who fight their organizations on fundamental vision and strategy stuff. You know that I believe we should be demanding partners - challenge the status quo is my middle name. But this does not apply to the basic structure and business model. If you have joined an organization that is slow moving, traditional, and conservative - don't fault it for not being nimble and uncomfortable with risk. That is not the model. If your organization says is wants to be more global and collaborative and this is the strategic direction - you don't have the right to run your department as a silo. That's not your business model. Get on the bus or go elsewhere.

As leaders, we should be open to feedback that helps us improve. We should seek alternative views and involve people in shaping the future. That said, once we have decided the strategic direction and the desired culture, we have drawn a line in the sand that we should be willing to hold people to.

• You will never know if your vision or strategy is the right or wrong one if you never totally go for it.
• We won't know if running will help us lose weight if we only do it on Sundays.
• We can't tell if spending more time with our kids will help their grades if we only do it when we have time.
• You can't know if your desired culture is the right one if it is optional and spotty.

There is nothing more noble and magnificent than a fully implemented idea. Most of us half-ass it through life. The leaders I admire most go full in - they align all aspects of the work and team. If it does not work, they will change, but not before doing it well and right.

I don't know if Sam will make a difference. If he continues to let the tail wag the dog, I think his efforts will yield unremarkable returns. This is sad, a tragedy. I know of no leader who wants to be unremarkable.

This is the leadership litmus test. Call it follow-through if you like as it is certainly that. But the words don't do the practice justice. Leaders who are willing to make the tough calls to create alignment with a goal/strategy/intention are worth following, supporting, and sweating for.

You might be thinking, "but what if I don't like the direction my organization is going?" Share your ideas and concerns, try to influence new thinking. But if this is the business model - you need to either be a part of making it work or get out. There is no acceptable in-between place as a leader. If you are not a positive force for the change, you are hurting the organization. As leaders, we are hired to manifest an intention - that's our job. And if we are not doing this - if we are fighting it - then we are not doing our job.

So here is my suggestion, because I know you want to be remarkable. Review your organization's strategic plan, its vision, its desired culture, its business model. Then ask yourself, how should these intentions change how I lead? Am I avoiding the tough decision? Is everyone on the right bus?

Above all else, don't be boring. #management

There are so many things that sap the life out of people in the workplace. Red tape, BS, blowhards, drama, low expectations (very common, shocking isn't it?), decaf, learned helplessness, yada yada yada.

When the manager adds nothing amazing to the team/dept/workday, he/she becomes another drain. Not even neutral. Boring and uncatalytic managers subtract.

Your employees are coming back from a 3-day holiday. They have had too much beer and sun and they need management that electrifies them back to life and into their work "zone."

What do ya got under that truck of yours? Perhaps you need a B12 shot.

As Gandhi never said, but would have, had he thought about the profession of management, be the source of wonder your team members are secretly begging for every night before they cry themselves to sleep.

My New Book is Out - The Management Development Handbook

Hello!

Yes, I got all my hair cut off. The Houston humidity is not a curly girl's friend....but I digress...

I want to tell you about my new book! It is called, The Management Development Handbook, from ASTD Press. I did not actually write this book, I was the editor. I had the opportunity to invite the people to contribute who I thought had something important to say about management. There are 37 authors and 37 chapters and it is a whopping 538 pages.

Sometimes these compendiums are a bit like verbal museums – they include all the classics and well-known authors. I decided to take a different approach and invite contributors who are active NOW and who are exploring the latest and emerging trends in management. You will recognize a few of the names but may never have heard of many of them. And that is WHY I invited this eclectic group of authors to participate – because they are people I think we should all get to know.

The book is not cheap – ASTD has it price around $100 bucks (wow, I know). But it is like getting 37 little books in one. You can download an excerpt here that includes my introduction, table of contents, the Foreword, and a sample chapter. Some of the chapters are sassy, irreverent, and/or story-like. Some share the latest research. Some are lengthy, while others are more like short essays. One chapter is a set of screen shots from the best employee handbook I have ever seen. One chapter is a collection of provocative columns from one of the authors of the legendary Cluetrain Manifesto (yeah, I know, how cool is that?). Words like “cry,” “love,” and “irreverence,” are shared in this handbook about management.

I love that about the collection! There is something for everyone. I think it offers a lot of value and hope you can pick up a copy for your management library.

Who is this book for? All managers and those who develop managers. The chapters speak directly to managers.

The book’s page on ASTD is here.

I would like to thank ASTD Press for supporting my somewhat non-traditional approach to this book. Doing the museum version is safer because the well-known names ensure a certain number of sales (like having Al Pacino and Meryl Streep in a movie). Projects are always more fun when you work with a partner who lets you color outside the lines.

And I want to thank all 37 contributors!!!! I am a huge fan of your work!

Here is the table of contents with a list of all the contributors. Many of them are bloggers who I have been following for years.

The Management Development Handbook

Table of Contents

Introduction – Into the Future We Go: Lisa Haneberg

Foreword: Betsy Myers

Section1: Fundamental Ideas for Managers         

Complexity and Perseverance: Margaret Wheatley, Ed.D.

The Way We're Working Isn't Working: Tony Schwartz

Irreverence as a Managerial Tool: What managers can learn from Tina Fey, Martin Luther, and Bob Dylan: Michael Kroth, Ph.D.

Five Universal Themes in Business: Todd Sattersten

Positively Using Your Power: Sharlyn Lauby

New Evidence of Servant Leadership’s Efficacy as a Managerial Approach: Bret Simmons, Ph.D.

The Manager’s Role in Creating a Learning Culture: Kevin Eikenberry

Building Your Craft: 10 Important Perspectives for Effective Managers: Randy Boek

Managing Scenario Projects: Thomas Chermack

Women and Power: Jeffrey Pfeffer, Ph.D

Brainpowered Tone Tools to Manage Excellence: Ellen Weber, Ph.D

Section2:  Managers as Culture Builders

Who Says There's No Crying In Leadership?: Terry (Starbucker) St. Marie

The LKP Field Guide - An Inspiring Model for Communicating Expectations: The LPK Design Team (via Anne Stone)

Rethinking Your Organization as a Community: The Open Source Way: Chris Grams

From Quality to Excellence - Essential Strategies for Building a Quality Oriented Culture: Tanmay Vora

Welcome to the Challenges & Joys of Moving to an Economy Where Access Triumphs Ownership: Lisa Gansky

Should Managers Care about Employee Happiness?: Michael Stallard

The Manager as Extreme Leader: Steve Farber and Steve Dealph

Winning with a Culture of Recognition: Derek Irvine and Eric Mosley

Section3: The Goal - Teams Who Do Their Best Work Together

Creating a Sharing Society: Raj Setty

Are SMART Goals Dumb?: Mark Murphy

How Team-Building Really Works: Steve Roesler

Get Rid of the Dotted Lines: Accountability and Authority in Managerial Relationships: Tom Foster

Performance Management at Ground Level: Wally Bock

The Improvisation Edge: Secrets to Building Trust and Radical Collaboration at Work: Karen Hough

Engaging Management: Put an End to Employee Engagement: David Zinger

Creating Winning Teams: Vikram Bector

Co-Create: Project Excellence for Teams: Steve Martin

You're Not the Boss of Me: Jodee Bock

Make Talent Your Business: Wendy Axelrod, Jeannie Coyle

Section 4: Management is a Social Act

Unmanaging the Network: David Weinberger, Ph.D.

How to Fascinate: Sally Hogshead

ValYouCasting: The New Workforce Social Competencies: Terrence Wing

Using Social Media to Create Systems of Engagement: CV Harquail

How to Run a Great Web Meeting: Wayne Turmel

Convening: The Ultimate Management App: Patricia Neal, Craig Neal

The multi cultural and multi generational workplace – what are the future challenges to leaders: Alfredo Castro

Remember when we were courageous? Seemingly fearless?

I was walking on the treadmill tonight while listening to my iPod. I have a playlist of up tempo songs great for walking. The song "Relax" came on from Frankie Goes to Hollywood. I thought about something I did when I was in my early 20s to this song...

Get your mind out of the gutter....

Before I tell you what I did, let me come clean and admit I was a serious disco queen. A total disco freak. I loved it all, especially the somewhat funky stuff like Depeche Mode, the Cure, Eurythmics, etc.. I also had a thing for Barry White, but who didn't?

One more thing before I tell you what I did to the song "Relax." Since I am confessing my dorky music tastes and seriously dating myself, let me say that I am a huge fan of Yanni. Yep. Oh, and John Tesh's sports anthems. And Enya. But I also like the Fray, Neon Trees, and My Chemical Romance if that helps.

Back to my story of courage...

I lived in Tampa when I was in my early 20s. I was going to college, was a waitress at a TGI Fridays and then a night audit manager at a hotel. I never had any money. I started driving a motorcycle because I could not afford a car (or a proper bike, mine was a piece of crap Honda 100 with one wobbly wheel). To make extra money, I entered dance contests. They were big in that day.

At first, I entered contests with some guy I met that night and we danced as a couple. Disco was great because, unlike ballroom or some other more coordinated dances, two people could do their own things and look like they were a pair. Dancing in a couple, we won about a 1/3 of the time. The total payout was usually $100, or $125 for the better competitions. Not bad!

I remember the first time I entered a dance contest without a guy. Just myself. The discotheque was packed. It was one of the nicer places in town, unlike the ABC Liquor Store bar I went to a lot because it was statistically easier to win the dance contests there (fewer people, drunker clientele). On this night, the place was nice ($150 prize, I think), the crowd was big and looked hip, and I could assume the competition would be tough.

So what made me think I could win against several pairs of dancers? What gave me the confidence to dance alone in front of a room full of judging eyes? I still don't know how I might have rationalized entering this contest. I talked myself into it - and, no, I was not drunk - and I entered as a single.

I got to pick my song and I selected "Relax" because of its great crescendos and thundering beat. Whenever any DJ put "Relax" on, I always danced to it - I knew every inflection point.

I danced my heart out - left it all out on the dance floor - no reservations.

I did not win.

After that night, I entered a few more contests on my own, I won only one (to the unlikely song, "Shock the Monkey" if I recall).

Thinking about it now - 25+ years later, I wonder where I got the courage to do it. Was I fearless then? Not at all - I can remember being filled with fear. But courage is not the absence of fear, it is acting in the face of it.

I want to tap into that more courageous Lisa more often.  And not just in a life-threatening situation, like a car accident. I want to be courageous and seemingly fearless when I don't need to be - like at the disco. It feels wowy, tingly. It's like ice cream AND the head freeze. The pain and pleasure of New Mexican green chiles. Lovely and overwhelming. I know the courageous Lisa is down here somewhere.

I bet you have your own story of the more courageous you. Reflect on that time and enjoy it again. Who were you being that you did that? What's going on in your life today that could use that YOU?

Food for thought. No go shake it.

Most imp question: How should I live? #management

As a leader, we impact our life and many others. The question I have posed above is fundamental to how we shape our brand of leadership. We all choose - whether we realize it or not - how we will lead. In each moment we are making a new choice. Whatever we do, we choose it, and we are therefore responsible for having done it.

It takes effort to act consistently with our chosen way of life - to manifest the leader inside. It takes courage to resist the urge to tone down our boldness or turn up our meekness. We push the mute button for fear of being labeled something. For fear of standing out (or not standing out). For fear of making waves (or not making a ripple). We invite fear into our days to decide for us, but we are still responsible because the fear is a voice within us - it is us.

Action is our engine and the only thing that will enable progress and meaning. Be ready for anything and put in the effort. Answer the question, "How should I lead?" through your actions as this is the only real way to be authentic. If we answer with intentions, we are stalling and in the stalling, we act in bad faith. Out of alignment. Living "in order to" is not how we should live, love, or work.

I explored this idea for several hours this weekend. It was disturbing, helpful, enlightening, and joyful - in that order.

Give Feedback that Fills the Spirit #management

This is a portion of a real email:

“Super! Very well done. Exactly what I requested.”

After seeing this, and feeling its effect, it got me thinking about how some people are so much better at providing feedback and reinforcement than others. A message like the one above, sent in a timely manner so that the “what” is very clear, not only reinforces expectations and provides feedback, it buoys the spirit.

We all want to hear that we nailed it.

I have known managers who would never tell someone he or she did an amazing job and this is a shame. Bad, bad manager! The power of being fully expressive with your feedback is immense. I am not suggesting that you tell someone he or she nailed it if he or she did not. I am suggesting that you should not hesitate to make someone’s day with high praise when deserved.

It’s like finding a box of Godiva truffles on your desk chair but is less likely to result in post-enjoyment guilt.

De-Fragging the Organization

Do you remember when we used to de-frag our hard drives? Those were the days. All we had to do was push a button and all the disconnected bits would find each other and come together. Gaps filled and errors fixed themselves. After de-fragging, our computers work better, faster, and did not suffer from spastic glitches. We would go about our work until it was time to de-frag again.

If only we could push a button and do the same for our organizations!

We need to de-frag our workplaces but it takes more than a single action. Think of all the things that get fragmented:

• Communication streams.
• Work processes.
• Relationships.
• Understandings of upstream and downstream expectations, successes, shortcomings, and problems.
• Visions, goals, priorities.
• Even individuals can feel like they have become fragmented.

De-fragging the organization is a weekly managerial practice. Every conversation, meeting, performance conversation, and planning session can have a de-fragging element to it. That is, of course, if we make it so (hat tip to Captain Jean Luc Picard).

I use a Mac now, so I don’t evenknow if PC users still de-frag. Perhaps my younger readers don’t even know what I am talking about! It used to be that de-fragging the computer was akin to taking your computer for a spa day.

Our organizations need to be put back together regularly. Our intertwined processes and interdependent relationships need to flow to progress. Flow, flow, flow, with no dams or barriers or mudslides. De-frag today and every day. Ask your team what needs to be de-fragged about how you are working.

Contingent Accolades, AKA Praise-Request Email Sandwiches – They will backfire, so don’t do them!

I have been thinking about this topic for some time and was not quite sure how to approach it. Why? Because the inspiration for this post comes from the frequent requests I get by email to interview an author, do a guest post, do a link exchange, advertise on the blog, etc.. I get many every week, usually a few a day.

Inevitably, the email begins with praise about a post. Lisa, I really loved your posts about XYZ and think that your idea is right on. Some call me brilliant! Insightful! Enjoyable! It makes a girl’s head swell.

And then it deflates. Everything would be peachy and wonderful if the email stopped there, but it never does. The next paragraph pitches someone or something. Often, the topic of the book or speaker or site is not even a good match this blog’s focus (I got one that was about financial planning and I can assure you that in the eight years I have been doing this blog I have never written about financial planning).

Why am I bringing this up? Am I not grateful for the attention? Do I not think their praise is legit?

I think that some of the people who write are somewhat sincere. They do like the blog or post and are sharing that they are a reader to establish some relationship.  I think some are using the latest PR technique to write to bloggers personally and refer to a post (note to PR people, you have a lot of competition and we get these same emails, nearly word for word, every week, you are not being unique).  Some are new to the blogosphere and don’t yet understand why a real blogger would not jump at the chance to share obvious link sites with their carefully cultivated but ever fickle readers (dear readers, I hope you do not mind that I called you fickle, but alas you are, and I know that if I went to the dark side and started being more commercial/slick that you would drop my blog in a microsecond, which is not why I would not do it, BTW, what’s wrong is wrong, I am just saying..) .

And many don’t understand that our blog is our brand and that we believe that everything we do is a reflection upon us (a major distinction between individual and corporate blogs, for sure). I have had a few guest posts on Management Craft but they were provided by people I know and love. Most are other bloggers I admire. None come from people I have never heard of nor have no interest in getting to know. None.

I am grateful that my little blog has a wee bit of popularity and I understand that part of being a blogger these days is fielding PR requests. I am not complaining about the emails. I assume they will continue. So why the public mini-rant? In the words of the White House, I see this as a “teachable moment” related to leadership (pretty cool how I have tied my mini-rant to the blog topic, eh?).

I think that most of the people sending me these praise-request email sandwiches are smart, hardworking, and well-intended. But I wonder why they can’t see the problem with their approach? Why do they think that this should work?

Managers and leaders do this all the time in our workplaces, too, don’t they? I bet some of you have done it already this week and it is only Monday. In an attempt to soften the request or ease into the conversation, we start with praise and transition into the request. The problem is that this approach totally negates the honesty of the praise and makes us look like manipulative fools. We are not – for the most part – manipulative fools but using the praise-request sandwich makes us look this way. In an effort to try to relate we alienate.

If the work someone is doing means something to you, share that and make the person’s day. And if you need something from them, leave that for another conversation and get directly into it when the time comes. You might even start with being really open. For example, I have yet to get an email from a PR person that said:

“Lisa, I know you get many of these emails every week, so I am going to cut to the chase. I would love your help getting the word out about XYZ book, which is about managing drama in the workplace. I know this is a burden and that you need to consider these requests carefully so as not to dilute your brand. I would like to make this as easy as possible, so I have attached a link to a post that I think you would enjoy and that aligns with the Management Craft focus. Link to it if you are so inclined and I appreciate your consideration. I would be happy to send you the book if you want, although I know you will not likely ever have the time to read it. I will not bug you a second time.  PR Guy.”

To be clear, I would likely not link to the post, but at least it is real and sincere. I would be more inclined to consider it. The odds would be higher and I would not feel manipulated.

The bottom line: We humans are pretty quick to sniff out ulterior motives even if they are born from sincere intentions. If you want to have more impact and influence, improve your ability to filter out potential sources of these feelings and reactions. Be more cognizant of how your message is being interpreted. Think through what the unintended consequences might be. See the praise-request email sandwich (or conversation or meeting or whatever) for what it is – a tool that does not work.

And in an effort to save my time and yours, all you PR guys and gals out there, here is my stance on requests related to this blog:

• I do not entertain requests to advertise on this blog. It is not my thing. The only exception is the ad to the right you see from Forbes, which I agreed to years ago as part of being one of their bloggers. Also, I am an Amazon affiliate and when you click to buy one of my books on the right side, I get a wee commission. Both of these income sources add up to about enough to buy a cheap purse or fake pair of earrings each year.
• I do not do link exchanges. Ever. I link to sites and posts I find and I like and I think you might like too.
• I do nothing with blanket press releases. I realize that you will not take me off your list because you want to be able to tell your client that you sent the release to a million bloggers and media outlets, but I won’t do anything with it. Please don’t follow up.
• A rarely entertain the book review requests or guest post requests – really, your energy will be better used asking someone else. It is so rare that I will say yes. I share resources I hear about from pals or find on my own.

This is my stance. It might hurt me in the long run because I know that bloggers can make some money or find more readers by being more amenable to these requests. I don’t care, this blog is eight years old and it will attract the right people. You, my dear readers, are the right people. I want you to always feel special to me. If I ever slap you with a praise-request sandwich, slap me right back and put me in my place.

I like crescendos - Thoughts on managing based on vibe.

I was walking a 10K yesterday and relied on my iPod to keep my going at a good pace. I have several play lists set up for exercising with peppier songs. I noticed, however, that when I was hurting or needing more uumph (it was hot and humid) that I skipped the perfectly fine peppy songs in favor of songs with big drama and fuller sound.

I like crescendos. In fact, I like crescendos in all aspects of life and work.

I would be happy doing most any type of work as long as it offered the opportunity to create some boom, some wow, some big moments.

This is the vibe I prefer in all aspects of my life and those managing me can get my best work by ensuring I have the chance to experience crescendos.

We all have a preferred vibe and it is a unique thing. Management books suggest that managers ought to get to know each employee's goals and talents. And this is important to know. But I also think we should learn the vibe that fuels their engagement.

Start by thinking about the vibe that you prefer. Then share this with your team and ask them to share theirs. Examples will help clarify what you are asking.

Think about why people leave their jobs (bad manager, I know, but there is always more to it). Often it just does not fuel them. They leave a perfectly great job for an unknown but great sounding job that they hope will feel different to them. What if you could help their current job feel better?

Core Beliefs of Great Bosses

I really like this article from Inc titled, 8 Core Beliefs of Extraordinary Bosses. I agree with them all! Here is one of my favorite snippets from the article:

3. Management is service, not control.

Average bosses want employees to do exactly what they're told. They're hyper-aware of anything that smacks of insubordination and create environments where individual initiative is squelched by the "wait and see what the boss says" mentality.

Extraordinary bosses set a general direction and then commit themselves to obtaining the resources that their employees need to get the job done. They push decision making downward, allowing teams form their own rules and intervening only in emergencies.

I thought I would address my take on the obvious question this article provokes. Can one BECOME a great boss by adopting these beliefs or is it just that great bosses share these beliefs but that the beliefs do not cause the greatness to occur (chicken and the egg). I know - and have seen happen - that when we change our beliefs, we change our actions and outcomes. It must be sincere, we are talking BELIEFS here, not slogans or mantras. But if you believe these beliefs you will become a better manager. Take it to the bank.

Things I want to know when I coach people. #coaching

Thinks I want to know about the people I coach:
 
Drive: What’s motivating her – her driving goals?
Fascinating: What’s fun – what fascinates her?
Triggers: What causes her to be uncoacbable?
Pathways: How will she best hear what she needs to hear?
Amazing: What is her special skill(s)?
Fault lines: Where are her personal blind spots or potential derailing factors?

Try asking about these things, and sharing these things during your next coaching or mentoring conversation. It will help you help others.

And if you are not sure how to answer some of these questions yourself, well, you have some thinkin' to do....... And don't be fooled by your surface-level self-talk. Dig deeper until you uncover the real crux of things.

Complexity Requires Group Success @Atul_Gawande @ted

I like this video from TED of Atul Gawande, author of The Checklist Manifesto. Although he is using the example of healthcare in this talk, everything he is talking about applies to all industries.

My favorite quote: "As individualistic as we want to be, complexity requires group success. We all need to be pit crews now."

Verbal White Space @steveroesler

I like this post from my pal Steve called, Do you use verbal white space. Check it out.

I agree that one common reason we gunk up our communication with tool many words and qualifiers is to "soften" the message. But being unclear and indirect weakens our message rather than softening it. And softening the message is more for us and not the listener anyway.

One of the most caring things we can do is to have the courage to be clear and direct and to the point.

Are you off course? Here is a thought about how to get back on track.

Yesterday I was reminded of a post I did a couple of years ago called, You are Amazing Even if Today You are Off Course. Check it out if you need some perspective/inspiration/relief/ideas.

I have been thinking about this topic a lot this week. Partially because I want to ensure that I stay on course with my goals but also because I see how hard we are on ourselves and the toll this takes on our spirit and desire to keep moving forward.

Shorterm"itis" perhaps.

I think there is something to be said for believing in ourselves. Really believing. Believing that even though our daily choices are imperfect and our resolve wanes at times....And even though we sometimes say one thing and 30 seconds later do the opposite.... That we are fully capable of massive and transformative progress. That we can do _____ and we can be the one that others think about when searching for a good role model. "Nothing stops her," they will remark.

Few aspects of our lives require perfection to work. This is true! Woo-hoo! Yippeekayee! Momentum, progress, small wins, sweet daily victories, moments of glorious clarity - that's the ticket to success.

Don't let being off course become a source of power pulling you away from your goal, see it for what it is. A spec of time that will be gone in a minute. If in the next minute we become the change we seek, we can skip forward once again and enough that future setbacks will also be insignificant. Keep the progress big and the setbacks minuscule.

Enjoy being in alignment in this moment. And don't look back.

Last chance on my podcast episodes, get em' while you can! #management

Several years ago, I did a podcast series called "Fireside Chats". I have not recorded an episode for some time, but I still get about 800 downloads a day. Weird.

I talked with folks like Marcus Buckingham, John Kotter, Dan Pink and many others. I talked with fellow blogger/writer pals Wayne Turmel, Ellen Weber, Steve Farber, Alexandra Levit, Michael Stallard, Kevin Eikenberry, Michael Kroth, Todd Sattersten, Raj Setty and many others.

It was fun, but I doubt I will ever pick up the mic and record more. So to simplify life, I will be discontinuing the feed at the end of the month. You can download all the episodes directly by using the links (in this post and by looking at the "podcasts and webcasts" category pages) or you can select the feed in iTunes and download them there (search under my name or the name of the podcast, "Fireside Chats About Management". All free.

And then once you have downloaded them, you can feel free to share them.

I really enjoyed doing the podcasts, but the editing and processing took a lot of time. At one time I had visions of being the Terry Gross for management.....imagine.....but is was not to be.

Oooh, one more cool thing. Here is the link to the recorded movie/webcast for the song "Breakthrough" that my brother Perry Devine wrote to go along with my book Two Weeks to a Breakthrough and my 40 day motorcycle book tour back in 2007. To date, I think this is still the only song that has been created inspired by a business book. And I think I am the only business author who has done a motorcycle book tour. It was 40 days long and a great experience. I would love to do it again. Ironically, although this book is my favorite, it is - by far - my worst seller. Go figure. I think Jossey Bass still has about 10,000 copies of the book sitting in a warehouse somewhere. Here is a link to the podcast I did with Perry talking about the project to create the song. I love this song and think Perry did a great job.

One more bit of frivolity. I took a solo trip to New Mexico a few years ago and recorded a few podcasts. Here is a short piece where you will hear hummingbirds and thunder (don't have your headphones too high, the thunder thunders). Here is a short piece where I try to teach myself how to play the Native American flute along the Gila River. And here is a piece recorded on top the dunes of White Sands. These are just plain goofy.

I hope you enjoy these recordings and download those you would like to refer to later. I will shut down my hosting site near the end of April.

Also, thanks to artist Jon Conkey for creating the painting that has graced the top of all my podcast posts, including this one. I have the original painting on my office wall and still love it.